HOW TO MAKE PEOPLE LIKE YOU

I met a young lady frowning some weeks back. She was lamenting to me
how people have been treating her badly. I tried to ask her some
private questions to really know why people don't really like her and
I saw the reasons why she has been treated badly. This lady's
experiences led us to this necessary discussion this time, titled "How
To Make
People Like You" Many people in our world today are unhappy and don't
know how to come out of that syndrome. Naturally, there
are certain things to do to make people feel warm with you without
stress. "He who wants to make friends must first be friendly". Also
what you make happen to other people will happen to you. It is the law
of sowing and reaping. Essentially, it could transcend into business
strategy.
Here are some of the tips that will make people like you naturally!
*Make people feel that you really want them around you.
*Appreciate people around you.
*Show interest in people's personal lives.
*Indicate interest in people's aspirations, visions and goals.
*Be an encourager.
*Do not be partial.
*Smile at people whenever you meet them.
*Say thank you for everything.
*Notice when people are absent; call or text them that you miss them.
*Call people by their names soon after you have met them.
*Call people on their birthday, wedding anniversary and any other day
important to them.
Whenever there is an opportunity, give a gift.
*Cultivate the habit of making –up with your friends. Do not let it be
one-sided.
*Offer water, drinks or food to people when they visit you.
*Mourn with people who are mourning.
*Go an extra mile to help someone.
*Be friendly.
*Greet people in a pleasant way.
*Show people that you respect them no matter who they are or what they
have achieved.
*Be conscious of people who have inferiority complex and treat them carefully.
*Genuinely appreciate people's family, clothes, houses, cars, furniture etc.
*Let the conversation centre around others and what they are doing
rather than on yourself.
*Listen to people's problems; proffer solutions if you can or refer
them to those who can.
NOTE OF CAUTION
Most of us make this mistake. There are some people, no matter how
good you are to them and how you want them to be your friend, they
will never become your friend and will pay you back with evil.
Similarly, there are certain people who come to our lives as minus and
add problems. Let us be careful with them. There is need to be
cautious with this kind of people and ignore them!
I want us to know that people come to our lives for three different
Reasons. They are as
follows: (1.) For a Season
(2.) For a reason and lastly
(3.) For a life time.
It is now left for us to discover and place them where they belong.
Put all the afforementioned astericked points to practice and i tell
you, you will have good testimonies. Thank you!